How Different People Show Care at Work Through The Lens of Insights Discovery
It must be love, love, love…….
February is the month of love. At work, love isn’t necessarily shown romantically, but it still shows up all the time
As care.
As attention.
As how we understand each other & have each other back.
One of the most helpful things to remember, personally and professionally is that love doesn’t look or sound the same for and from everyone.
The lens of Insights Discovery gives us a beautifully simple, helpful guide.
Those leading with Fiery Red energy show their love through providing solutions & protection and jumping into action
Some people show care by stepping in.
They clear obstacles, make decisions quickly and take responsibility when things feel uncertain or stuck.
Their instinct is to act, to maintain momentum and shield others.
At its best, this says: “I’ve got this, and I’ve got you”.
What they need in return is trust, respect for their intent and recognition that acting fast and providing solution is their way of showing you they care.
Sunshine Yellow – Care through connection and encouragement
Others show care by lifting the energy.
They check in, create optimism and keep people talking when things feel heavy.
At its best, this says “it’s not just what you produce that matters, you matter”.
What they need in return is presence, and appreciation that their contribution is highly valued.
Earth Green – Care through listening and inclusion
Some people show care by creating safety.
They notice how pressure lands on people, make space for quieter voices and work hard to keep relationships steady during change.
They’re often the ones holding the emotional fabric of a team.
At its best, this says “you’re not alone” .
What they need in return is patience, reassurance and acknowledgement of the often, invisible work they do behind the scenes.
Cool Blue – Care through clarity and fairness
Others show care by thinking things through very carefully and thoroughly.
They bring consistency, rigour and fairness to decisions, especially difficult ones.
They care deeply about getting it right and acting with integrity.
At its best, this says “you can trust this, I’ve thought about it properly”.
What they need in return is time to process, respect for their standards and recognition that precision and clarity is an expression of their love and care.
Why this matters
Most teams don’t struggle because people don’t care (most people truly do care).
They struggle because people care in different ways, and those differences often go unrecognised or misunderstood.
When we learn to notice how others show their love and care, not just whether they do, we shift from judgement to understanding & appreciation.
Tools like Insights Discovery give teams a shared language for understanding and noticing these differences, helping people feel seen, known and valued, even when the pressure is on and work is demanding.
A moment to reflect
Take a moment to consider;
- How do you most naturally express your love and care towards those you work with?
- And how might that be experienced by people who express their love and care differently from you?

